Many girls are known to be hard to get naughty with. Not that they are hard per se, but its because many guys out there are so wreck in bed that women find sex to boring. Who wants a boring life? However, you can spice things up. If you give her intense orgasm, you will prove to her that you are not like the rest of pack out there. She will call you in ungodly hours, make tons of flimsy excuses just to get a fix. Girls know that men good in bed are hard to come by. She will therefore hold unto you like a rarity or a precious jewel.
The secret making her stick by you is giving it to her more than any man has ever done. This will convince and confuse her psychology to affirm that you are the best man out there. The excuses she makes to avoid getting to bed will stop and will be so much into you that she finds difficult to live without you sex. If you think that your money will make her stick and make her do things for you, then, you are in for a rude shock. Research shows that, at least 55% of women cheat their partners for better sex. To avoid losing her to another man, up your game. Give her a mind blowing orgasm.
Upping your bed game is imperative to a happy relationship. If you know how to please her in bed, then she will do everything within her power to ensure that she keeps you happy both in and out of bedroom. The things that you found hard for her to do to you, will come to you as freebies. What is more, she will anticipate for enjoyable sex, and will be more enthusiastic. She will offer more of herself to you, making the whole session enjoyable to both of you.
That being said, being a king in bed is an essential skill that every man should strive to have. The skills are not inborn. They are acquired not in a formal school setting, but rather in the school of life and experience. Everyone, including you, can be good in bed. It is easier than you think. You only need to learn and practice some tips, and avoid some mistakes, then Bam! it will be quick than you realize. Below, i have outlined the tips that will make you a guy that every woman is desperate for- a bed guru.
1. Fill her with anticipation
The first thing is to begin with her imagination even before getting close to her. If you are away from her, don’t down play the power of a text message. Ensure that she is really into you and then tell her how attractive she is and you can’t wait to take those clothes off and kiss every curve on her body. Tell her that you can’t wait to suck the nipples. Talk dirty. Help her know how you desire to give her pleasure. You know the thing that turns her on. Tell it to her. It not only fills her with anticipation, but also makes her comfortable which will help on making her cum and orgasm every time.
2. Kiss, caress, lick and suck
The rules of nature dictates that women climax slower than men. Therefore making them the less unsatisfied pack. However, you can bridge the gap by giving her a good foreplay. The result is that it makes both of you reach an orgasm almost at the same time. Can you imagine both of you reaching a climax at the same time? Can be quite explosive. Right? The secret is doing a fore play in the right way. Kiss, caress, suck and lick her sensitive spots.
Areas such as the nipples, the inner thighs, the butt and the neck are all sensitive. Though these areas are common spots for almost every woman, each woman has a weak sex spot. You can learn her most sensitive spot by observing how she responds to touch. Once you discover it, stimulate it like an expert. Be patient. Caress and stroke it gently and lovingly until she runs out of breath and begs you to get into her.
In women anatomy, the clitoris and the G- spot are the most sensitive areas. You can stimulate them by caressing them. However, not all women like fingering. Observe how to she responds to it or if it doesn’t appear awkward, ask her whether she likes it. While deep fingering is not always ideal in the initial stages, a shallow one can spice things up. You may use a finger vibrator to help stimulate the clitoris. If you are okay with it, you can alternate with licking once you learn the best ways on fingering her pussy.
4. Play it wild
Research shows that most women wish they are raped. It may seem awkward but that is the dark secret. The possible explanation could be that the love being overpowered. Next time you are having sex with her, be in charge. Pin her wrists down to the pillow, press her into a corner as you get into her. Grab and spank her butt as you give her a fast stroke. You can also use the blindfolds and the handcuffs, stimulate her and pound her flesh. As you do this, remember to kiss her.
5. Change routines
Routines make sex boring and predictable. The times when missionary was the only style are long gone and buried. Many women love doggy style. Give it to her. Instead of always being on top, give her a chance to be on top. Let her own you. Many would love to, but shy off telling it. The G-spot when properly stroked, will give her intense orgasm. To do it, make her lie down face up, then lift her legs and bring them close to her face (as if you are folding her into two), take them apart and pound deep into her.
6. Make the setting ideal
The environment/setting makes sex enjoyable and memorable. Put on cool music in the background and lit the room dimly preferably with candles to make the scene romantic. Though it can be a bit expensive, change the bed sheets. Scent is powerful in leaving a trail of memories. Find out whether your partner loves your natural manly scent or cologne. If cologne, find out which type she likes best. Things might get sweaty. Cologne helps to cover the sweaty stench.
7. Personal hygiene
Some men are good in bed but their partners are always dis interested. These men engage in endless tantrums on how to be better in bed. The secret lies with their hygiene. Bad hygiene such as a bad mouth odor is a turn off. Before going down on her and eating her pussy out, ensure that you have thoroughly brushed your teeth and your breath is fresh. Additionally, ensure that your pubic hair is well shaved. She might want to give you a head. You never know. Don’t take chances.
As you pound her, learn to multitask. Getting down deep into her helps to stimulate the vaginal walls and G-spots. However, if you multitask, you make her orgasm both quickly and intensely. How to be better in bed through multitasking? Simply, as you pound the vagina, be rubbing the clitoris and licking the nipples. When you do this, you will be stimulating multiple spots and the same time. This can be hard at times but if you do it rightly, an orgasm and a squirt will be imminent.
9. Talk to her after sex
Women too want to be good in bed. As you read on how to better in bed, chances are that your partner also wants to better in bed too. After sex, many questions go through most women’s mind. Did he enjoy it? Was i good enough? Will he still love me after it? They will not ask you directly, but will observe your behavior. Here is where most men go wrong. Some go sleeping while others dress up and leave.
After sex, whisper to her how really good she was, how you enjoyed it and that you will never leave her. Bodily contact after sex is essential. Cuddle her and let her feel the warmth of your chest. Nothing makes her feel secure and loved as this. Additionally, you engage is some activities together such as taking a warm bath together, watching a movie, cooking and massaging. Once you do it, she feels comfortable and ready for next session.
As outlined above, getting better in bed in a simple skill that many lack. If you follow the steps outlined, you not only get better and stay on top of the pack, but you also lead a fulfilling and happy relationship. Instead of you demanding for sex, she will be the one doing it. She will not only demand it from you, but she will be pleading for it. However, getting there is a process that requires the outlined bed techniques, paying attention to what arouses her and practicing proper hygiene.